i am tired and sick and i don’t feel like working so i’m not going to…until my students show up that is. but that’s not for another half hour. i was thinking earlier this week about moving and how when you first get a new house it doesn’t feel like home. but then you spend time there and hopefully it is better than your previous domicile so you start to think of it as home. in july dylan and moved to a totally different part of town into a new house at the same time i began a new job. it was a huge change. everything felt out of place for a very long time. but i realized recently that i finally feel like our house is home and my job is familiar and all of those other things that we crave after major life changes. the most interesting part is that it happened long ago without my noticing it.